Comfort, not Criticism

Believe it or not, but I actually plan to keep my relationship mostly out of this blog. We’re in this really special time where everything is sweet and exciting and I want to keep that just for us. But my boyfriend has been so wonderful […]

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Playing it Cool

Yesterday was a weird, sad day. I was exhausted, about to start my period, and my fucking dog died. I also almost crashed my car on the way to church and cried through the first part of the service. It’s safe to say it was […]

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It’s not you, it’s him

I watched a video the other day that really bummed me out. In this video from Babe, a girl interviews different guys about the last time they had sex. When asking if they each came during that last sesh, each answered yes. But when the […]

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Sad Girl Song: Want You Back by Haim

I am 100% obsessed with this song and video. It’s the perfect Summer Sad Girl Anthem. And really, who doesn’t love a good girl band? Keep kicking ass, Haim. We love you! Just know that I want you I’ll take the fall and the fault […]

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Catch Flights, Not Feelings

Aaron was in LA for a few weeks working on a film project when we connected on Bumble. We hit it off via text and decided to meet for drinks. I remember texting my girlfriends from the bathroom, half-buzzed, saying how incredibly cute and nice […]

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William and the Used Stuffed Animals

As soon as Sad Girl Blog launched, I had quite a few ex-whatevers reaching out to me. Some had compliments, some were trying to clear the air before I wrote about them, and one in particular said he couldn’t wait for his “asshole cameo.” Well […]

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What in the hell is ghosting?

Dating online can get a little messy. If you’ve ever used an app to find a date, you know this to be true. While the app approach to dating makes some things easier (meeting people with similar interests), it can make other things way more […]

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Love and Emotional Abuse

One night I found myself in a weird blackhole looking through old photos of my ex. Not in a longing or missing him sort of way, but more out of curiosity. I had deleted all our pictures from social media, so I don’t even remember […]

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Sour Beer and John Prine

When you’ve been on more bad dates than you can count, it’s hard to believe you’ll ever meet anyone decent. I’m not sure how or why, but I was in a strange period where I’d only date guys who wouldn’t touch me or make a […]

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Sad Girl Intro

I feel like I haven’t been truly happy since my ex and I broke up 6 years ago, which is a really scary thing for me to admit. Not to say I’ve been miserable this whole time – I’m fine, but I don’t feel that […]

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