It’s not you, it’s him

I watched a video the other day that really bummed me out. In this video from Babe, a girl interviews different guys about the last time they had sex. When asking if they each came during that last sesh, each answered yes. But when the […]

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Golden State Goodbye

I wrote this last week, but I’m posting it from a hotel room in Amarillo, TX. – In two days I am completely uprooting my life and moving across the country to Nashville, TN. It honestly can’t come soon enough. I am more than ready […]

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Respect and Breakfast

I’m about 3 weeks from moving out of California, so it seemed appropriate to write this goodbye story about a dear friend. – Sam was my first tinder date nearly 4 years ago. Our first few dates we great. We were checking out cool bars, […]

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Sad Girl Song: Want You Back by Haim

I am 100% obsessed with this song and video. It’s the perfect Summer Sad Girl Anthem. And really, who doesn’t love a good girl band? Keep kicking ass, Haim. We love you! Just know that I want you I’ll take the fall and the fault […]

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AND he stole all your weed?!

I’m not trying to steal your thunder, Sad Girl Bailey, but I have the best ghosting story OF ALL TIME. Last summer I was in Vegas with my sister and she met a cute guy outside a club where 50 Cent was playing. Don’t judge. […]

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Catch Flights, Not Feelings

Aaron was in LA for a few weeks working on a film project when we connected on Bumble. We hit it off via text and decided to meet for drinks. I remember texting my girlfriends from the bathroom, half-buzzed, saying how incredibly cute and nice […]

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Love and Emotional Abuse

One night I found myself in a weird blackhole looking through old photos of my ex. Not in a longing or missing him sort of way, but more out of curiosity. I had deleted all our pictures from social media, so I don’t even remember […]

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Sour Beer and John Prine

When you’ve been on more bad dates than you can count, it’s hard to believe you’ll ever meet anyone decent. I’m not sure how or why, but I was in a strange period where I’d only date guys who wouldn’t touch me or make a […]

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Sad Girl Intro

I feel like I haven’t been truly happy since my ex and I broke up 6 years ago, which is a really scary thing for me to admit. Not to say I’ve been miserable this whole time – I’m fine, but I don’t feel that […]

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