It’s not you, it’s him

I watched a video the other day that really bummed me out. In this video from Babe, a girl interviews different guys about the last time they had sex. When asking if they each came during that last sesh, each answered yes. But when the […]

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The One after The One

Do things ever really work out for the one after The One? From what I have seen and experienced: no. Rebounding is a real thing and even if you truly think you are ready for a new relationship, your heart probably thinks otherwise. I was […]

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Golden State Goodbye

I wrote this last week, but I’m posting it from a hotel room in Amarillo, TX. – In two days I am completely uprooting my life and moving across the country to Nashville, TN. It honestly can’t come soon enough. I am more than ready […]

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Respect and Breakfast

I’m about 3 weeks from moving out of California, so it seemed appropriate to write this goodbye story about a dear friend. – Sam was my first tinder date nearly 4 years ago. Our first few dates we great. We were checking out cool bars, […]

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Sad Girl Song: Want You Back by Haim

I am 100% obsessed with this song and video. It’s the perfect Summer Sad Girl Anthem. And really, who doesn’t love a good girl band? Keep kicking ass, Haim. We love you! Just know that I want you I’ll take the fall and the fault […]

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AND he stole all your weed?!

I’m not trying to steal your thunder, Sad Girl Bailey, but I have the best ghosting story OF ALL TIME. Last summer I was in Vegas with my sister and she met a cute guy outside a club where 50 Cent was playing. Don’t judge. […]

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Catch Flights, Not Feelings

Aaron was in LA for a few weeks working on a film project when we connected on Bumble. We hit it off via text and decided to meet for drinks. I remember texting my girlfriends from the bathroom, half-buzzed, saying how incredibly cute and nice […]

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William and the Used Stuffed Animals

As soon as Sad Girl Blog launched, I had quite a few ex-whatevers reaching out to me. Some had compliments, some were trying to clear the air before I wrote about them, and one in particular said he couldn’t wait for his “asshole cameo.” Well […]

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What in the hell is ghosting?

Dating online can get a little messy. If you’ve ever used an app to find a date, you know this to be true. While the app approach to dating makes some things easier (meeting people with similar interests), it can make other things way more […]

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